Auckland, NZ — A unique and deeply symbolic celebration marking the close of the Month of the Family brought together Tongan communities in Auckland on Friday, honouring the elderly as “Vaasi Koula” — golden vases, representing beauty, value, and sacred worth within society.
The event, held at the Tongan Community Hepisipa Church on Great South Road, was the realisation of a vision by Bishop Silouan Silala Vea, who sought to elevate and recognise the contribution of Tonga’s elder generation.
The celebration formed part of Tonga’s traditional observance of May as the Month of the Family, a period that highlights the importance of family across generations.
The month typically begins with Faka‑Mē, the Children’s Sunday observed in the first week of May, followed by Mother’s Sunday in the second week and Father’s Sunday in the third.
Bishop Vea noted that while these occasions honour different groups within the family, the elderly often stand quietly as the foundation holding everything together.
“This vision was born to ensure our elders are celebrated together — united, respected, and uplifted,” he said.
In Tongan culture, the term Vaasi Koula — literally translated as “golden vase” — carries profound meaning. It symbolises something outwardly beautiful and highly treasured, yet also something sacred that must be handled with care and respect. Bishop Vea used this metaphor to emphasise the dignity and enduring value of the elderly, whose lives reflect wisdom, resilience, and faith.
“This celebration is about recognising our elders not just for their age, but for the richness they carry — like a golden vessel filled with life experience, culture, and spiritual guidance,” he said.
Ecumenical Gathering of Faith and Service
The programme was led by the Hepisipa brass band and choir, bringing together various Christian denominations in an ecumenical spirit. Elders from multiple churches participated, including some as old as 89 years, many of whom are still actively serving their congregations and communities.
The service highlighted not only their longevity but their continued commitment to faith and service — reinforcing the idea that, like a treasured vessel, their value does not diminish with time.
Following the formal programme, the celebration continued with a luncheon at the Star Motel in Ōtāhuhu, where participants shared food, stories, and fellowship — reinforcing the strong communal ties that underpin Tongan life.
The event was attended by prominent community and church leaders, including Rev Taniela Vaka, Rev Feleti Fonua, and representatives of the elderly community.
Acknowledgements were extended to ‘Uheina Kupu Tu‘ifua in London for sponsoring the celebration, and to Sione ‘Onevela Tupou, Public Officer of the Royal Guards Veterans in Aotearoa New Zealand, for his support.
